The wedding
It all starts with a proposal. Traditionally the man goes down on one knee to pop the question. If he receives a "yes", the couple is engaged. It is customary for the man to buy his fiancee an engagement ring, most commonly a diamond ring. Engagements can last for years, and if neither of the couple breaks off the engagement, the next step is marriage. Most weddings take the form of either a civil ceremony (conducted at the Registry Office) or a traditional white wedding, held in a church. (There are other ceremonies for different religions.) If the couple chooses a church service, the planning can become quite complex. The church must be booked, the service has to be chosen, flowers arranged and so on. Other arrangements (for both traditional and civil) are to draw up a guest list, choose bridesmaids (the girls who traditionally accompany the bride in the church) and the best man (the bridegroom 's friend who accompanies him to the ceremony), buy the wedding dress, arrange a honeymoon (the holiday after the wedding), compile a wedding list (a list of presents that guests can choose to buy the couple) and of course, to select the wedding ring s. At the end of the day, the happy couple traditionally leave on honeymoon.
1. honeymoon – медовий місяць 2. to go down on one’s knee – ставати на коліно 3. to pop the question – зробити пропозицію 4. fiancée / bride – наречена 5. bridegroom / groom - наречений 6. an engagement - заручини 7. to break off the engagement – розірвати заручини 8. civil ceremony – цивільна церемонія 9. white wedding - вінчання 10. to arrange smth – організовувати щось, домовлятись 11. to draw up a guest list – скласти список гостей 12. bridesmaids – свашки, подружки нареченої 13. the best man – сват, друг нареченого 14. wedding list – список весільних подарунків 15. pre-wedding nerves – перед весільний синдром 16. wedding bells – весільні дзвони 17. wedding vows – весільна клятва 18. wedding cake – весільний торт, коровай. 19. a couple - пара
Exercise 11. Try to match English proverbs with their Russian equivalents: 1. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. a) Розлука заставляє серця любити сильніше. 2. Beauty lies in lover’s eyes. b) Негарна, але кохана. 3. Love me, love my dog. c) Любиш мене, люби і мої звички. 4. Love is blind. d) Любов сліпа. 5. True love never runs smooth. e) Любов ніколи не буває без суму. 6. Forbidden fruit is sweet. f) Заборонений плід – солодкий. 7. Old friends and old wine are the best. g) Стара любов не ржавіє. 8. Old love doesn’t rust. h) Стара любов не ржавіє. 9. Love conquers all. i) Любов перемагає все. 10. Love makes the world go round. j) Любов крутить світом. Exercise 12. Translate the following expressions: a)a blind date, to play gooseberry, lovely hearts, a true love, a quite wedding, a love affair, a secret admirer, wedding rings, to split up, to stay friends, a wife and a husband, to be madly in love, to declare love, love at first sight; a) фліртувати із подругою, порвати із дівчиною, побачення у сліпу, бути по вуха закоханим у свого хлопця/дівчину, йти на побачення в кіно, любов матері.
Exercise 13. Read and translate the dialogues about dates and dating: Dialogue 1. (Dating discussion) A: Do you enjoy going on dates? Dialogue 2. (About dating) A: Are dates fun for you? B: I enjoy dating a lot. A: Why are they so fun for you? B: Dates allow me to meet new people. A: Your dates are always fun? B: Well, I don't always like who I'm dating; so not always. A: How come? B: The person I am dating may not be my type. A: How come you asked them out if they weren't your type? B: You don't always know what type of person you go on a date with until you know them well enough. A: Dating sounds pointless. B: Now that you mention it, sometimes you're right. Dialogue 3. (Asking for a date) A: Can I ask you a question? Dialogue 4. (Asking for a date) A: Can I ask you something? B: Sure you can. What's going on? A: Would you go out with me on Friday? B: Are you for real? A: I thought that we could go to dinner and a movie. B: That actually sounds like it would be a lot of fun. A: Unless there's something else you would prefer to do. B: Actually, I would really like to go to dinner and a movie. A: What time do you want me to come by and pick you up? B: Is 7:30 cool with you? A: That's perfect, so I'll see you then. B: Perfect. I will see you on Friday. Dialogue 5. (Meeting a Blind Date) A: Hi, I am looking for a woman named Mia. I've met you before. of finding me. all that hard. Dialogue 6. (Meeting a Blind Date) A: Hi, are you Mia? B: I am Mia. You must be Rubin. A: Yes, that's me! B: It's so good to finally meet you. Karen has told me so much about you! A: I hope that she had good things to say about me! B: She had only good things to say. Did you have trouble finding me? A: Well, how many beautiful women in a red dress by the fountain are there? B: Thank you for the compliment! A: So would you like to go get a bite to eat, Mia? B: That sounds perfect. Lead the way! Dialogue 7. (Stopping the relationship) A: Hello, this is Mike, Kara. B: Mike! Good to hear from you. How are you? A: Everything is fine, and how are you? B: Things are going well with me. A: Kara, I had fun the other night at the movies and was wondering if you would like to go out again this Friday. B: Mike, I don't think that it's a good idea to go out again. I really need to focus on getting packed and ready to move back home. A: Maybe we could just meet for coffee or something. B: I can't really right now, but I appreciate the nice evening we spent together. Exercise 14. Discuss the following questions. Use the model:
1. Why do people fall in love? 2. What makes people attracted to other people? 3. Is it important to become friends first, like the couple in the article? 4. What do men want in a woman? What do women want in a man? 5. Do men and women want diffferent things? 6. Is Love at the first sight – good or bad? 7. Wedding of my dream. 8. Love makes the world go round. 9. Love or education – what is more important in teenager’s world? 10. Do I solve biological or cultural phenomenon? Explain why. 11. What is the colour of love? 12. How many times have you fallen in love? Was it a happy/true love? 13. Do you believe in love at first sight? Why? Did you have it? 14. Have you ever gone out on blind dates? Are they typical today? 15. Do you believe in online love? 16. Do you have an experience of having a boyfriend/girlfriend from the social networks? 17. Do the social networks help people meet? 18. Do you have friends/acquaintances who met online? Are they happy today? 19. Do you like to go out on dates? Does it bring you fun/pleasure? 20. Is it difficult to break up with a person you loved? Why?
Exercise 15. Agree or disagree: ¨ We accept the love we think we deserve. ¨ It’s better to love and lose, than never love at all. ¨ A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love. ¨ At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. ¨ Love is like war, easy to begin but hard to end. ¨ Love... What is love? Love is to love someone for who they are, who they were, and who they will be. ¨ People need love even when they don't deserve it. Remember! Some ways to say: “ I love you. ”
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